Actually, he is now coming by on wed morning on the proviso that he sees the baby alone to say goodbye. my offer. might have been a masochistic move, but there it is.

He doesn't want to see me before he leaves.

My last question Allen to you is do I send him an email or leave him a letter? I have done all the tough love stuff, it didn't work becuuse I am 99% his mind is MADE UP so if there's one thing left to do it's a Robx "You know, I've been doing some thinking and this isn't working for me, I'm moving on, we deserve better" thing. I'm taking tactical moves here. Perhaps the last one before all goes silent.

What do you think?