Hey guys, I haven’t read the DR in a few weeks I will look at the last resort Technique again soon!! The funny thing is that I got a tx from her about our S last night. Maybe that talk about our S did help!!
I don’t want to give up.. I just not sure what to do next or just how to continue to show her I have moved on, & with the anniversary coming up it's just tough.
As far as the 180 I have actually done things for myself that I haven’t done in a while I guess it also helps that I'm on my own again and have to keep busy GAL.
One of the things that I think W is most surprised about; is ever since the busting of the affair I have stood up to her. Also by taking a stand for myself; I think by showing her I'm not a doormat as I became for a few years has helped.
I won’t just agree or hold back my feelings (I have to be careful though). Although I have slipped up a few times I'm trying to get better.
( A few great books that people had recomended on her that have helped are: No More Mr. Nice Guy! & Hold On to your NUTS).
