Posted this on Newcomers. It was suggested that I post this under this forum.
So the other night my W had started to fall asleep. both daughters where out. Heard W's cellphone which i thought one of them was texting her, so I thought instead of waking W up I just deal with it.
I deal with that but see that there is another text. Think it is from the other daughter.
To my shock and surprise, I find text from this guy with stuff saying I love you, w saying I don't wanna to go home because he will want to talk. At which point my W wakes up grabs the phone from me and deletes the text. I ask what is going on?
W tells me that it is a old high school friend who lives in Utah. Not making me feel real good at his point. Start having flash backs from when first W was having an affair... I lost it. W assures me that there is nothing going on...
So today I am doing the bills, got me thinking and I started to look at the text usage and calls... They have been having 30 to 40 minute phone conversations on a regular basis as well as texting on a regular basis. I am still not comfortable.
W now pasword protects her cell phone... won't give me the password Started looking at past cell phone bills...
They started communicating back in March. Texting for hour(s) at a time, talking when I am not around or wife is coming home from work.
Looking like W is having an emotional affair with this guy in Utah....
