tell me your opinions: how long do I wait until I text zoobrew?

I want to get my ring back and I want to know what happened with his exgirlfriend. I guess the 2nd is none of my business, and I truly honestly don't have future expectations for anything with him.

I know I said I think he will still call me, but the reason I am wondering if I should initiate contact is that after our 2nd date, I was the one who initiated and he let me know what he was thinking/feeling. It makes me wonder if it would be a good thing for me to initiate again.

I was thinking maybe of texting him tomorrow... is that too soon?
Since I don't want anything relationship wise, I wonder if I can throw out the whole "pursuing" thing and just be up front!

I want my ring back before school starts in September.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004