The link above was a good article about the danger of seeing a bad therapist. At the end it has some questions about how you should research finding a good therapist. I can't stress enough how having a good FAMILY THERAPIST has helped me even before my husband and I decided to work on things.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo