He's driving home right now (overnight) and I can see that he and OW are texting back and forth. I'm posting here so that I don't call and tell him to stop. I know that is not the right thing to do. Tonight was the first glimmer of hope I had that he wants to work on things (see above post) and I know I need to let him get home and probably sleep tomorrow after work since he isn't sleeping tonight and on Tuesday I suppose I need to set a boundary in succinct words. I need to think how to word it but I need him to know that his contact with her is disrespectful to me and the marriage cannot work with her in it. I will not tolerate it and if he wishes to continue contacting her he needs to live elsewhere.
Me 32 H 32 Ds 3.5 and 1.5 M 5 years, T 14 years EA/Bomb: 7/1/10 PA revealed: 9/14/10 Legally separated: 10/01/10
