i was told today that with the way marriages is nowadays that it is expected to have your children be part of a revolving door of men/women in your x's life.

What the heck???Am i missing something? I should expect that when i get married, consequently divorced that expect to have my h's gf's in my children's lives. oh heck no..............

ive been there done that with my 1st marriage.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline