That resonated as well. I have to forgive STBXW, but I won't forget that she chose to end our marriage without ever trying to save it.
My wife said "why should I go to marriage counseling? It will just show that I'm to blame and I have a lot of problems, I already know that, so why should I go" How do you argue with logic like that? It sure is hard to forgive isn't it but if it was easy what would be the gain? I think God makes some things difficult because the reward you reap from doing it is so much greater than if it was easy. Btw, you call this a slower day! OK, I guess it's all relative, right?
