I'll be moving to surviving the Big D one of these days. I really should be in separated, but I will wait until this thread is locked.
Right now, our agreement (no lawyers involved) is to make it legal in 2 years. I want to stay in the house with my kids until S is done high school. We will then sell the house, pay off the credit line, split what's left and sign an uncontested divorce.
I wonder how many others there are like Shelby and I - that were here years ago and wound up returning after they thought the D was busted.
Anyone else with thoughts on the WAS and Facebook etc?