His W like to drink and go out to happy hours 2-3 times a week.
She always started crap after a few glasses of wine. She left a few times and they were on the rocks just about the same time my sitch started.
I will tell you this, don't engage in ANY r talk after she has been drinking.
i'll also say this... he was an excellent DB and didn't even know it. He didn't talk to her when she drank. Told her if she doesn't want to stay with him she was free to go. He even packed her bag and said if she didn't like it here to get the eff out. That was a total 180 for him. They are know doing so much better. I notice she comes after work to spend more time at home.
He took control, set her free and stood his ground.
It worked for him.
Don't believe all the crap your W says about the past especially after she has been drinking.
His W did the Jeckle and Hyde bit on him too.
Stand your ground.
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