Does this make sense????

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Like Pup and Virginia said, Gef.....there are an infinite number of options.

Call a DB coach. They are going to be worth more $$$ than your traditional counselor, who just wants to keep you in counseling. This is what the DB coaches do....and they have many years of experience. They know how to do this as quickly as possible, if you work WITH them.

If you take too hard of a line, you may slam the door shut....and if you just give in, you may lose your 'guy/self respect cards'.

I've seen a lot of Laurie's, Dottie's and Chuck's posts on the board, and have interacted with Laurie a lot. Why don't you search around the board.