Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

I would have pounced on my wife. Do you feel she was teasing you or trying to get a ride out of you or was it more like playing dress up with a friend?

I certainly don't think she was teasing me, or trying to get a ride out of me. I think we're just slowly becoming more comfortable with each other again, and this was another step in the right direction. I think if I would have jumped her, that would have been a step in the wrong direction... I was told here before that if I want to have sex with my W, I needed to act "as if" I didn't want sex with my W. Well, she's slowly coming around I think. But, VERY slowly...

John, the guy she went to a beer with the other, was he the gay friend, and that is why there is no threat?

No, wasn't the gay friend. But, I know the guy and his girlfriend (who was there) and he's not a threat to me, really.


And..... she's in the shower right now. All I can do not to go in there and invite myself in.