Hope--you go girl!! A date! wow--I can not even imagine it but I do dream...!lol.

I got served last Wednesday--don't know if you knew. Had a rough day, but it wasn't TOO terrible. Had a ton of friends stop by and that was nice!

I am still "workin it".lol. Still find the journey very interesting! Mine has been really pretty nice now for about 3 weeks. I don't care if his L's told him to or not, it has been a long 8 months of him screaming at me and this is REFRESHING!! I hope he'll continue and see that I can really respond to THIS person!

Oh, he also has been fixing things or paying to have them fixed!! Again, don't know why, don't care--I will take it!lol.

I think you are smart to go for full custody--he is too involved with OW anyway. And his parenting skills are much to be desired....

Take care--I lurk over in Infedelity a lot--follow a gal named SunnyD's thread. I will look for you there!!