EXACTLY!

It's like I don't care if she rejects me, or something I say. No Fear. I'm expecting and putting down boundaries that she's respecting.

For example, (and yes, this is silly) when I'm driving with her and stopped at a light, she has this really annoying tendency of telling me that the light has turned green. Drives me crazy, always has. So yesterday, she says it. And I calmly said, "Please don't tell me that, it's distracting, and makes me feel like you don't trust my driving."

Just like when I told her not to snap at me, she paused, then apologized. Why oh why couldn't I have learned to set simple boundaries and communicate 11 years ago?

Last edited by pinhead; 08/15/10 07:20 PM.