I found something else you wrote recently to IrishBlessing that addressed my "hope" for M; W; and my family.
Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Your hope has to be anchored somewhere. Know this: The best thing you can do for your M is to work on YOU. The best thing you can do for (W) is get out of (her) way so (she) can walk this journey alone. Which I believe you are doing a very good job. ... you have time. It just got left on your doorstep in a beautifully wrapped package. It is a gift for you. An empty box. Now, write down things you will do with your time and put them in the box.