Until the affair is over 180's and all of that in my opinion won't make a difference... The less exposure you have to him the better..
Until the affair is over he's not going to acknowledge anything... Put your energy into yourself... Not him
You only have a short amount of time before his abuse starts to wear on you...
Insomia, exhaustion, migraines, panic attacks... If it hasn't started yet it will soon.. you do NOT want to be living there in those conditions... get AWAY from him... put 100% of your energy into that... not the marriage. In my opinion you can't save the marriage while living there.
Paying attention to him NOW just sends a clear message that you support an open marriage and that you support his lying and abusive attitude towards the marriage...
Distance and silence sends a powerful message and it the LEAST TAXING on YOUR NERVES right now...
Stay away from him.
Is there NO FRIEND or famly member supportive of your situation who you can live with?
Someone must need money and would welcome you in their home for a few months...
