No one that matters. I don't know how to do it. I need a backup plan before I can because he can get me kicked out of our home, which he would do. What do I do in the meantime? Do I detach myself? Stop speaking at all? He has already said we can do this the hard way if I want. Is that what I want?

When I have brought my feelings up before and asked him to stop he said he shouldn't have to and won't because there is nothing going on. Besides which he doesn't really care what I think, because in his mind we are over anyway so why stop?

Last edited by Ihavehope; 08/15/10 05:20 PM.

Me 30 H 29
DC 9, 7, 2
M 4 years, T 6 years
ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10
He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too
Physically separating end of September