I would still be out living my life. Now I have no idea what to do.
And why would you ever stop living your life? You both need individual lives as well as a life together. Having individual lives makes sure neither of you loses your individual identity (which I'll bet good money happened to you both); it will give you guys something to talk about; it will also make your time together mean more than the 'old shoe' your marriage probably became.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!