LSG I used to live north of LA, what kind of work are you in, I still have a lot of contacts out there if it would help. In any case, I dknow I am making progress in regards to me, which is the ultimate goal. W has noticed but she is up and down, which I know is normal. So I will keep doing what I am doing.
A friend of hers I ran into last night, said with our first S, even though she had OM, W kept focusing on what I was doing, she would even hack into my emails and stuff while we were S and after I filed for D. I guess no matter how much she says she is done, is she really> her friend says the W gets like this and even though she wants to walk away she doesnt want anyone else to have me. Friend asked if I would take her back? I said right now if she was willing to work on it I would, but if D goes through I am done. I am not going to do this every couple of years with the W, when she gets unhappy time to run. She needs to grow out of that mentality its childish and frankly I am sick of it.