So WS asked me how much I want in child support. I said I didn't know, it depends on where I live. He thought I was staying here until the school year was over. I said 'i can't live with someone who doesn't respect me for too long, so I will be moving when I can'. He asked what I meant and I said 'the affair'. He said 'you want me to end an affair that doesn't exist so that we can respect the kids'. I said yes, I said we were still currently married and it disrespected me that it continue.
He said 'we can do a dissolution of marriage for $250 as long as it's uncontested and we can stay civil. I already told you you could have everything'
I got up and said 'i'm not ready to talk about this'. He said we need to. I said we will, just not right now.
Now what? I really want to go to MC but I don't know how to approach that. I'd like to bust the affair but I don't think I have enough evidence. I'd think that I might be able to convince him to do counseling for the kids' sake but i don't know how to phrase it. Help?
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
