Well, I guess when setting a boundary one should fully explain them!
About 2 weeks after I told H I would not live in an open marriage, and that meant as long as he was still talking to OW I would not be his friend and I did not want to stay at same house as him nor did I want him to call any more, I received a letter in the mail (from finance company).
H bought a $28,000.00 tractor!! He financed $18,000.00....needless to say I was on the phone immediately!!!
His excuse.......ready........You told me Not to call you!!!
Seriously!!........W T F!!!!!!
Make sure when setting the boundary......I don't want you to call me.......you fully state except if it has anything to do with: the house, finances, kids, vehicles, pets!! ...... ~gg.
Last edited by gardengirl72; 08/15/1001:52 PM.
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north