Well, I guess when setting a boundary one should fully explain them!

About 2 weeks after I told H I would not live in an open marriage, and that meant as long as he was still talking to OW I would not be his friend and I did not want to stay at same house as him nor did I want him to call any more, I received a letter in the mail (from finance company).

H bought a $28,000.00 tractor!! He financed $18,000.00....needless to say I was on the phone immediately!!! mad

His excuse.......ready........You told me Not to call you!!!

Seriously!!........W T F!!!!!!

Make sure when setting the boundary......I don't want you to call me.......you fully state except if it has anything to do with: the house, finances, kids, vehicles, pets!! crazy ...... ~gg.

Last edited by gardengirl72; 08/15/10 01:52 PM.

M55
H55
my D31
H D30 1st met her when she was 25
M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H
OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D
1bomb 6/05
2bomb 7/08
3bomb 2/10 moved up north