She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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Now she wants to get back together, but she wants to take our time and work things out first.

Is this all in?

Is this what you want?

When Coach and I talked about putting it back together, we were definitely on the same page about what that meant. No, we didn't know how we were going to accomplish that exactly, but we both agreed that the D would be dropped, I would move back home and we would do the work.

"take our time" may mean "let's agree to be patient with each other b/c neither of us knows what this will take." That's fine.

"work things out" may mean "let's do the work, find help..." Seems fine, too.

I guess it just doesn't seem clear where y'all left it. Can you add more to it?

I understand that she is apprehensive. She probably fears that she is signing up for what she had before - and really neither of you wants that - and neither of you know exactly how to completely eliminate that possibility. That is why "all in" matters so much. Both of you have to fully commit to a new beginning, using all of your new tools and skills, committing not just to each other but to yourselves.

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