Maybe the better question is, does anyone have any good advice for dealing with the impending thought that OM will have influence on your daughter's life? And one who would get involved with a married woman at that? This is the part the flat out sickens me, and is why I remain in the quandary I am in. I do not plan to go back on my stance of moving forward with the dissolution, which is scheduled for wednesday this week. But I just don't know how to get my arms around how this reality that he'll be around my kid. I will not pursue full custody, that would just make an amicable situation ugly.
It is as if I feel my marital situation maybe should not about what's best for me, it's about what's best for my Daughter. What if my wife is sincere enough with the letter she wrote? If it were just me an her I'd set her free. But with a kid, I think it begs the question, should I deal with all of the garbage, or some of the garbage, or triggers and renanats of the garbage, just to keep OM away from influencing my daughter. Has anyone done this or known someone who has done this and lived to regret it? How about anyone who did this and made the right decision?
M30 W28 D3 Married 5 years EA began 4/09 Separated 12/09 Found out OM's major presence 1/10 Filed dissolution 7/10 Upcoming Court date 8/10
Last edited by Grocerykartman; 08/15/1001:13 PM.
M-34 XW-32 D-7 Found OM's presence 4/09 Separated 12/09 Divorced 8/10 GREAT relationship as coparents since 8/10
