C2H--just catching up. Your wings video was excellent! Good job- you seem like a natural for your line of work (I mean as a reporter, but I guess you were able to eat spicy stuff, too! lol).

Your t-shirt was funny- I'm a fan of self deprecating humor! But you will be able to date quality women when you are ready. No need for that shirt!

The scavenger hunt sounded like a blast...well done playing it cool with Church_31.

"Just being" is definitely a challenge for many people. Did you have a hard time "just being" when you were married and things were going well?

Also, I wanted to comment that I think we, the LBSs, rewrite marriage history as well. I mean I know I started off only remembering the good stuff. But, strange enough, once I started interacting with the men this summer, I began to remember negative stuff. Why did it take dating? BUt I saw why having an OP makes the spouse rewrite the marriage, too.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004