question - once the D process starts, and now that W wants to sell house (I would love to keep it but not realistic) so I do agree, but I am thinking on one hand it would be best todrag my feet in getting it ready, on the other it may be best to get it over fast. One thing that drives the delay is my lack of a job, don't really know what I am going to do if it sells and I either have not found something or have not been on the job long.