I am not very computer smart and do not no how to get my thread over to this post. I feel better seeing that there are people like me going through this. I just wish I knew when and if she will come back to me. My son is coming home from Iraq in 2 weeks and that will be one stress off our plate. My wife and I are still living in the same house but are staying in separate rooms and have been for 10 months.She starts Dental Hygiene class in a week. My wife seems more civil to me and now will tell me where she is going. She has not included me in her plans as far as going places with her. We did attend a wedding 3 weeks ago which she asked me to attend. We had a great time. The next day she told me not to read into things. She had said then she still wanted a divorce. My lawyer has told me there is too much anger on both our parts. He felt we should table things until we could come up with a plan we could both live with. She at times seems like she is returning and then I lose her. It reminds of the movie The Notebook. I appreciate any insight I can get. I am taking care of myself. Well to all you good people out there; thanks for the kind words. Bobby O