I should say that before the conversation headed south, I managed to apologise for any part I had played in his unhapiness prior to the bomb.

I do beleive my WH was unhappy with me, and that the A was a way out when he no longer knew what else to do. The pregnancy was a trigger of course...

That doesn't excuse the A or for abandonning me pregnant..never..but I accept my responsibility in his unhappiness.