Tonight kids came home and took a bath with W. I was surprised she was in her under clothes in front of me for the first time in ages. I just walked by her and she went in the bathroom with kids, and I did not comment.
I spent the rest of the evening with the kids.
I will be with them all day tomorrow, so I am glad about the weekend. They came home much earlier than I expected. I had to close DB down quickly. I was so happy, and I rested for a little bit today, so I feel much better. I have to sleep early tomorrow for the court hearing on Monday.
Wish me luck!!!
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I'm sure a lot of your new friends here will be thinking about and praying for you. like you said, we have to focus on whats happening right now, but still plan for our new future.
Have fun with the kids today and good luck tomorrow.
I want to wish you the best of luck you never know what can happen. As always thoughts and prayers with you tomorrow just think of your wonderful kids and smile.
Well, I am still in the fog about what happened today. It seemed to go all my way today at the hearing. It is 50-50 right now for child custody until one of us moves out. We will have to have another hearing in November. I got everything I wanted so far. She did not get anything she wanted from me.
W is very vendictive right now. W is trying to get charges reversed on the credit cards that I was an authorized user on. Attorney told me not to worry about it. She is planning to move out, and I will have to do that at the time she does according to my attorney. She did not come with an attorney. My attorney said, "she thought I was going to roll over and go away," but I did not. He said she may be mad, but she probably has a lot of respect for me right now. I guess that is a good thing I would say.
I am still unclear what is going to happen now.
I will write more when I have processed everything.
I wish I felt better about this, but I am still being divorced from the woman I once loved. The kids are losing their families, but I am moving on and forward from this at my own pace. It will take me time to be 100% de-tached I suppose.
Thanks everyone for their support!!!
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My attorney said, "she thought I was going to roll over and go away," but I did not. He said she may be mad, but she probably has a lot of respect for me right now.
Good man.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
