I cannot tell you whether or not it was the right thing to do or not because I have been told not to have the R talks, but if it makes you feel better then that is good for you, and DBing is about helping us to "move on." I have had similar conversations with my W, and I do not regret them because it was something I needed to do for me. Right now my life is about me and the kids.
Would I have another R talk. Well, I don't think so.
I think that conversation will help you move on.
Do not second guess yourself.
Keep the pain and hurt in control. It is extremely hard.
You will be okay.
Last edited by LSG; 08/15/1005:56 AM.
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