You don't have to be cheerful...just try your best not to cry or yell. It is very hard for sure to detach. I think the reality isn't there yet for you so that may be making it more difficult.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
