21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

I'm getting nothing. Not any acknowledgement of the note I left her or the email I sent. She hasn't started making a list of things to split up or talked to me about me ending her auto insurance. I have received big fat zero. We talk about 3 sentences then entire day anyway so I don't why I expected anything.

I am still going to press forward preparing for her departure. And will cancel her auto insurance when the time comes.

I also left her a note today that said I am going to get another kid to go to the baseball game on 22 Aug instead of W going.

Now I am inviting the flames and 2x4's to come.

I asked the kids' summer school teacher if she wanted to come to the game. They only have 2 days left of summer school so there will no longer be a student-teacher conflict. W already trust this teacher with our kids all day so it's not like I am introducing a person with an unknown past to our children. And this girl is in college so technically she is a kid. A college kid.

Yes this girl knows we are going though a divorce and I told her, "It's just a baseball game, nothing more." She said she understood and will think about it. It would be nice to have a conversation on the 2 hour drive to the game instead of acting happy while the W ignores me.

Flame away, I'm wearing my Nomex Underoos.