Hey G,
Maybe WH needs a little more time adjusting or whatever before therapy starts...maybe he thinks therapy will open up some wounds he's not ready for yet?
Be patient.
Keep doing what you are doing. The no friends thing is fine. You need to keep our boundaries - meaning doing what does you the least harm possible and is in accordance with your values and beliefs.
I think he may come right around G, but time is of the essence. It's been what? 7 or 8 months since you separated? Just think how much longer it will take to piece things back together...could be a year or two. Can you ride this wave?


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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