Originally Posted By: Dianamo
Robx - you nailed it! Anyone that is "stuck" should read this post.....and read it again....and read it again......


I read that book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" last night and it was an eye opener! I really now see the "attraction" issue and how important it is for your self respect to just let go.

At this time, this advice sounds horrible and against your nature, but it works!

Ask yourself what feels better...

Her coming to me because SHE WANTS too?
or
Me chasing her til she does what I WANT?