To be honest I am a bit surprised by the quality of the men that I have attracted so soon after opening the door to dating.
FM!! I am sure that I am speaking for everyone here when I say that it does not surprise us at all that men of high calibre (sp) want you!
As for me being a catch, well I don't know. But I think I might be for a few months and then they would get bored with me and toss me back out there! Just need to really try to somehow keep developing my opinions, individual identity, and doing interesting things when I go back to work and still be a good mom to S when I have him.
But you know what surprised me was that there were lots of "decent" men out there (at least online and in my meetup groups). I think I really thought they were either here on DB forum or married....in other words, taken!
Last edited by newmama; 08/14/1011:47 PM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004