Cons: he is such a great catch that I could get attached, am not ready for that, do not like the idea of a relationship at this time, would be thinking about him in between seeing him, would feel scared, would feel worried, need to focus on balancing work and S, would know that I would need to end it.
Newmama, I'm not really commenting on the analysis about zoobrew specifically, but more about what you wrote above. I think that that is something we will both have to grapple with. Problem #1: YOU are a catch, and you will attract men who are a catch too. To be honest I am a bit surprised by the quality of the men that I have attracted so soon after opening the door to dating. I think I just need to go in with no expectations, and not create any. Yes, there is a risk of becoming attached. I don't know what to say about that except that I don't think it's that easy to define and enforce the boundaries of a male/female relationship...all you can hope for is that things are mutual
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
