New Here..My story...need advice, please!

[marie2235]

Okay. I have tied everything to save my marragie - including going dark, exposing. (which he got toally eveil after I did that) Took everyone's great advie - thank you.

IT is to the point this is hurting myself and my kids way too much that it has to end. He has no respect for me or clearly for himself. Still hasn't admitted anything, but still cheating and it's getting worse. He even opened up a joint bank account with the little tramp - after all, she is only 20 and couldn't get her own.

So.. I have tried to find a lawyer I can afford, but can not afford one. Im not sure what to do next. Husband has told me that he has a lawyer he has done computer work for, so he is getting legal help for free. I have no credit card, no nothing. He told me he was going to "give me nothing" and make sure I get sc....." He is going to leave and take his money with him. And all kinds of other things.

So..what do I do? I realize I am so much better off without him, as painful as that is, becuase if he changed and was the person he was before, I would forgive him. He is mean and cruel, he ignores my attempts at coming to a agreement for a seperation. He told me I would get nothing I wanted and I would hear from his lawyer. But, yet, I can't get one. He is still living in the house, as "I cant afford to leave" If I kick him out, there goes his paycheck, too.

He has no interest in the kids, except to hurt me.

Advice? I have googled law, lawyers,everything for the state we live in. Tried to get help. No help to be found, except a free consult.

Did anyone else have the same problem? How did you handle it?I have totally reached the breaking point. I still love him, but I can't stand him, either. I wish he were gone, so it is not thrown in my fact everyday.

Thanks for any advice.