Good interview, took the kids to the gym then out to lunch. W got done with work at job #1, texted me and asked where we are at? Waited about 20 minutes to respond, just said running around town, gym and errands. She is working at daycare tonight, and I told her I needed to meet with some potential investors on some deals I am working on. Told her I would drop kids off around 630 and pick them up a little after nine. She said I could drop them off at 5 and she would keep them until she gets off. Usually this would have started a back and forth tug of war, But I simply replied "whatever is easier" which put me on a 180 and a lid on the text conversation. She has been contacting me more since I dont contact her at all unless totally needed for kid stuff. I am GALing like a mother and she has noticed. She wonders where I am, what I am doing which has to do with the breakdown of trust. I keep replies short, and if she questions the answer I do not get hyped up I just say it is what I said it is. My confidence has come back quite a bit, and she sees that. Will post later.
