Thank you very much Valeria. I have warned H that if he pushes me to court, I will cross file on those grounds. It's also possible in Arkansas to have a divorce case dismissed for the same reason. They should call it the put up and shut up law.

Only in Arkansas.

As far as the mtg. goes, he is trying to obtain it through USAA as a VA loan, and they have already been notified my lawyer is looking over the papers, which I am becoming more and more certain I will not sign.