H called again, asking about taking DS. I was in the bathroom so he told DS to have me call him when I was done. I didn't because I was trying to figure out how to get out of him taking DS today. Then I got a text from H asking if I was mad upset about anything in particular, other than the obvious, was I trying to avoid talking to him. I said back that it bothered me I had to rearrange my day because he didn't feel good Thursday, that I had planned a day of relaxing with DS and now felt obligated to let him see DS. He texted back to ask why I didn't tell him on Thursday and I said because on Thursday he offered to take him Monday. H responded that he also asked about Sunday which I said wasn't a good day and if it made that big of a difference he would take him Monday, but he knows DS wanted to see him today so he thought it would be nice. I replied that it's my weekend with DS but if I don't let him see H then I come across as being a b*tch. H said then Monday it is and to give DS a hug. He also texted that he's not trying to be a jerk about things, that he misses DS and isn't contagious. He knows that it's my weekend but he can't help it, he wants to see DS. And that it's DS's fault for being so awesome, could I have DS call him. I replied that we do have an awesome kid and had DS call but H didn't answer.

DS was fine with not seeing his father today, I told him that he and I could have a fun day. He said he wanted to spend time with me but didn't want to make his daddy sad and I told him that Daddy was ok with it.

Head out to bring my mom home and H called. Passed the phone to DS and from his side of things apparently H was telling him that Whore's brat is moving into DS's room at H's place and the brat's room is becoming the new baby's rooom. DS didn't sound too pleased about it. Drop my mom off and H needs to talk to me, wants to take DS for the entire day Wednesday to bring him to the fair. I choke up but agree, thinking that taking DS to the fair is something that H and I should be doing as a family.

H asked if I was ok and I told him that no, I'm not ok but I don't have a choice. He said he was hoping I was doing better so we could talk about the divorce and had I thought about it any, reconsidered my stance on not signing it. He said he would pay for the whole thing if I would just sign. I said no, that I hadn't changed my mind, that I don't want one. I asked if he'd even talked to We the People yet to know if he could file, he replied he has the paperwork but hasn't filled it out yet. I said that he can't be the plaintiff and file against himself and he said he knew that, that I would have to be the plaintiff. And I said that I'm not, I don't want this. He said it would have to be some kind of abandonment in order to get a divorce without having a legal separation and as long as I sign it he'd be ok with physical or the other one, where he didn't meet the marital obligations, you know, perform his husbandly duties. Now, I was getting progressively more upset the more he talked so I said that he was too busy doing that with someone else and hung up, then started fully crying. He called back, I ignored it. DS asked if I was talking to his daddy still and I said no, so he asked could he talk to his daddy. I said sure and passed him the phone. DS called H back and kept asking me questions then relaying the answer to his father. He asked if I could talk, I said no, then asked if I was still crying, I said yes. I guess H gave up because he talked to DS for a few more minutes then they ended the conversation and he hasn't called back since.


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