H hasn't followed through on any of the boundaries I requested before we R. I asked for honesty, NC, transparency, IC for him and MC for us. Although he agreed to all of this, I didn't have the energy to enforce any consequences (I was dealing with my father's illness and passing) and now it's gotten out of hand.
For a long time I've been seriously considering asking H to leave but keep waffling because of the ramifications on our S13 who is entering high school in a couple of weeks and has been dealing with self esteem issues recently. Maybe these are excuses on my part. My first step will be to have H move out of our bedroom (which I've also been contemplating for a while now).
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
