I don't live very far from you (Fort Smith area). One poster asked if you can file on grounds of adultery in Arkansas. As of 2006, the answer is yes. In fact, I filed Adultery charges against XH.
I also want to warn you that your H could go behind your back and obtain property. It happened to me.
In '06 (while we were separated), my H tried to get me to co-sign for several acres of land he wanted to buy. I refused, but a local bank allowed him to purchase a smaller amount of land without my co-signature or waiver. He later built a house for himself and OW on that land during our divorce process. Of course, that was a definite no-no in the eyes of the law.
So, I just want to caution you to please be wary of any tricks that your H might try to pull behind your back (such as obtaining land without a waiver). MLCers are impatient, make notoriously bad decisions and rarely think through the consequences.
