in the newcomers forum, there is all this talk about letting the WAS go is the best way to get them to come back.
ok. after analyzing our sitches with h's who are underdeveloped emotionally, would dropping the rope ever work?
to me, dropping the rope only works on someone who is mature enough to realize that what they are losing. with my h, i don't think he'd ever realize what he's missing (a real chance at growing up).
