Please consider this that I mentioned before...and discuss this with your lawyer...
If H is scheming on how to get himself set up and screw you this could be how he is doing it...
If he quits paying your house payments now...he screws his credit too...
HOWEVER, if he keeps paying, gets you to sign a paper giving him rights to purchase a home WITHOUT you having rights to it...AND then he stops paying on your home...then what? HE has a home and YOU don't!
Then in court he states he can't keep both...says you can have the one YOUR living in (the one you may not be able to afford on your own, he knows this)...even if they demand him to pay it is very hard to enforce...unlike child support...spousal support doesn't have many adverse consequences if it isn't paid, especially if they are "just trying to make a life for themself too"...
Be very careful with this...it smells funny...and when someone starts accusing you of something it is usually them that is upto no good (accusing a spouse of infidelity...they are usually cheating...accusing of game playing...they are game playing)
My guess...H is the one playing the game! Don't loose this one!
Take care...it is hard to know where to draw the line while trying to keep things fair and civil...I went through that...I had a LS to protect me financially...I was able to make a living to support myself and with my adult daughter's we had an a roof over our heads and food on the table...it was hard but better then living with my parents...we had to sell our home when H split...it was hard, still is financially...
Know your rights...and stick up for them...be strong for you...and if needed, have your lawyer be the bearer of bad news to H...so you can just stand back and say, "I have to do what my lawyer says, I'm sorry."
