Definitely don't let him rush you into anything. He has to respect it when you say "I need some time to think about this and talk it over with my lawyer." Delay can only work in your favor.
Did you determine if he's having an A? Because that changes everything. Do you think he wants the sep to go live some wild single life? I'm hoping this isn't a MLC for him as from what I've read those can take years to resolve, but have you read any of those threads on that forum?
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.
