She told me that she was scared that I would get hurt. That she didn't want me to hate her if things didn't work out. She's still planning on moving out.
To me, this sounds like she has not changed her mind. Listen to the pros here PH. Let them chime in. I think you should say something like 'I don't want to fight you on this anymore. It's not what I want and I'd like us to at least try to make this M work for our sake and the kids, and I don't know if we can get there but I'd like to try. But I don't want to hurt you anymore so I'll stop resisting."
That's what you SAY. What you do are your 180s, your GAL, etc. SHould you help her move out? I suspect the pros will say yes but I leave that one to them. You are being TOO NICE! I know, that shouldn't be a bad thing, but she doesn't respect you right now PH and she has half her body out the door.
The only way you can find out if there is hope is to stop fighting what she "thinks" she wants/needs right now. Let her have it and DB your a$$ off.
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