She may still leave me to figure things out. She may not figure them out. She might decide not to leave. She might never come back.
mays and mights are no way to live your life.
I don't want to start a disagreement about tactics. ultimately it is your decision how to live and how long to live like this, if you call her bluff from the other page you will have sooner certainty and a better outcome. Just a thought, call her bluff.
