i'm finding out so much. for so long when we were together it was me that was crazy for thinking he was a cheater, from what i've seen, he's hitting the clubs everynight, commenting about how many women are out and about for him to sleep with, all about drinking.

hind sight is 20/20

i felt good i could gather the intel, but the intel is upsetting.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline