She's in MLC, but I was weak. Now what?

[Truegritter]

I've no idea how to get her over her anger.

YOU can't.

She must come to this on her own.

And

Have no expectations about when this happens.

Why? Wasted energy.

What can YOU 100% control?

I'll give you a second....

?

?

Ok YOU got it?

I love the story Missher posted.

BUT

YOU can't remove the tree.

Unfortunately she must do the heavy lifting there.

So the work and focus should remain on what you can control

YOU

Don't know if you have gotten the mantra yet from around here

You can't talk your way out of something you acted your way into.

Actions.

What actions?

Those that are the new Crushed. Not the angry resentful Crushed.

Keep digging. YOU are in there somewhere.

Find your core and make decisions from that.

Those are the ones that no one can shake.

Those are the ones that you have no self doubt about.

You wear them like your skin.

Define yourself.

Not by the actions or inaction of others.

By your own choice.