Don't know if you are reading stuff in addition to DR/DB, but I am also reading "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass (in addition to Marriage Builders site), among other stuff. Keep posting on ur sich.

Is ur wife willing to do MC with you? I am considering starting to go individually with a pro-marriage, solution oriented therapist (in addition to my individual counselor) since she is currently unwilling to go. Be interested to hear your thoughts and thoughts of others re: this.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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