Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Nothing new to report tonight.

We had the transparency talk. She agreed to the following:
- No R talks after 10pm at night because we're both too tired to discuss anything
- No meeting with the opposite sex unless the other person has met them. (I tried the NC with opposite sex, but she didn't like that considering she has a good gay friend, and one guy friend. We can talk about that more in MC this week.)
- No more saying "Fine" or "nothing" when responding to, "What is going on / How are you feeling." We must communicate truths, not shadows.
- Full explanations of any plans outside the house. Where, who, when, calls when leaving and returning.
- Full internet transparency (FB, email, phone, etc) after our MC this Wednesday. I agreed to this because I knew this is a HUGE issue for her (controlling, manipulative, father figure), but I'm the one who suggested that if she would agree to this, I would give her a time window to become accustomed to it before relinquishingn control. She said OK and that she would do so after she talked with MC about it so she could feel more comfortable about it.

Then I was super tired. Went to bed to read and take a nap and she came in there to do the same. Slept a while, son got up from his nap, she stayed in bed while I got dinner ready. We ate. I told her I was going out. Went and played some night golf from 8:30 - 11:30pm and came home.

She asked about who/where/when and I was honest and open. She asked why I was mad when I left, and I told her that I was not angry but I was upset because she stayed in bed after our S4 repeatedly asked her to get out and help with dinner, and I had to make it all.

Later tonight she has been saying things while on the laptops like, "I'm talking to my sister right now on chat." or "I'm talking to XYZ person on FB now." I wasn't even asking.